For those who have never experienced divorce, it can be a word that drums up fear or perhaps judgment.For Christians who have considered or have walked through divorce, it can be a word that carries the weight of crushed hopes and dreams for the life they never thought would end up the way it did.Can the church accept them the same as any other married couple?As I look at the interesting truths that I found in Scripture on divorce and remarriage, I have to ask myself, “Why didn’t we see this before?Choices based on the present but without enough regard on the past.These similarities make me think it is wise for women to ask four questions before dating a divorced man.
I see them making choices about dating divorced men similar to ones I made.But for Christians whose marriages are crumbling around them, the need for helpful, Biblical resources is a must. The following are just a few steps you need to begin taking to find healing. Recognize the trauma, shock and loss and take time to grieve B. Readjust to singleness and avoid dating until you can truly say, “If I'm single the rest of my life, it's okay." D. SEE ALSO: 5 Biblical Things to Do When a Friend Hurts You Each step is integral to the healing process.The following is a resource guide for Christian women who are going through divorce, or women who are divorced and seeking guidance for building their lives again post-divorce. The First Steps a Christian Should Take after Divorce 2. Dealing with Difficult Family Dynamics after Divorce 4. You need to be able to grieve your loss and deal with the aftermath of your divorce before you can come close to healing.For 33 years, he served as pastor of Bethlehem Baptist Church, Minneapolis, Minnesota.He is author of more than 50 books, including Reading the Bible Supernaturally.